In my profession as a psychologist I have discovered many of my clients are struggling with the belief they are selfish. When I asked them what it means for them to be selfish, I usually get the same response, “I can’t say no to others, that would be selfish.” They explain that they have been raised and taught by their parents/caregivers that while being kind and forgiving, they must always think of others before themselves. To insure the needs of others are met before their own. The[...]